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Caring for Yourself During a Lupus Flare

Caring for Yourself During a Lupus Flare

Managing a lupus flare can be physically and emotionally draining, so the goal is reduce inflammation, prevent complications, and conserve energy while also keeping your mind gently engaged.

If you’re living with lupus, this is about supporting your body — not pushing through.

Little things can make big changes happen

Little things can make big changes happen

There are small things you can do for your health, you don’t have to make huge changes to make a difference. Infact, making huge changes can be daunting and often make us fail at the first hurdle. Start with one small change and see if it helps you can then try other things as any improvement in our health at all is a big win for us.

Food glorious food!

Food glorious food!

When a new patient asks for advice one of the first things I say is treat your body well, it needs your help. High up in the list of things I personally think is very important for your body (lupus or not) is good nutrition.

As we say in our section on diet there’s no particular diet that is recommended for lupus but there are foods that can help your lupus or on the opposite side of the coin make you sick.

Lupus has a party and invites all its friends

Lupus has a party and invites all its friends

When I met a lupus patient I’d ask what other autoimmune conditions they had. They’d always ask how I knew they had more than lone condition and I used to say it was like lupus having a party and invited all its friends to come along. In other words its sadly not unusual for us to have two or more autoimmune conditions, know as overlap syndrome.

Carpal Tunnel Syndrome operation. My story.

Carpal Tunnel Syndrome operation. My story.

Many, many years ago I was diagnosed by Professor D’Cruz with carpal tunnel syndrome, something that’s quite common amongst lupus patients. It causes tingling, numbness and pain in the hands, fingers and wrists because of pressure being put on the nervous system. Lupus can cause joint pain (arthralgia) and inflammation in and around the joints, resulting in problems like arthritis, tendonitis and as mentioned carpal tunnel syndrome.

What I wish people knew about lupus

What I wish people knew about lupus

I’ve had lupus for about 30 years and this is personally what I wish people knew.

It’s incurable and chronic. Just because you see us out and about doesn’t mean we’re ‘better’ or ‘cured’. We have some days that the pain level is tolerable and some days where it isn’t so we take have to take full advantage of the days we can function at all.

Loneliness and chronic illness

Loneliness and chronic illness

People associate loneliness with elderly people living alone, perhaps after their partner passes away but patients with a chronic illness are another group that also experience loneliness, if you feel ill all the time you tend to stay at home and this can cause social isolation.

Is lupus a disability?

Is lupus a disability?

The reason I decided to have a go at writing this was because over the years I have heard so many patients talking about the difficulty in claiming benefits and the fact that the people dealing with their claims don’t understand anything about lupus. In a way I sympathise with the person that has to deal with the claim as lupus is far more complex an illness to have to assess than some others, it’s definitely not cut and dried so they can just tick off boxes. However, not understanding lupus does not justify them refusing benefits.

My dental confession

My dental confession

I always tell the story of how, before diagnosis of lupus, I had a severe pain in my jaw and my dentist said that I needed root canal. A couple of weeks after the procedure I still had the exact same pain. I was referred to a dentist in Harley Street who also couldn’t work out what was wrong, so I’d spent a lot of money on unnecessary dental work (not to mention the pain). This made me a bit wary of dentists.

Whatever I look like, I'm not cured.

Whatever I look like, I'm not cured.

I’ve often posted on social media telling people that if they see us out and about, even if we outwardly look very well, we’re not ‘cured’. So I thought I’d address the issue of the fact we can sometimes have good days, these are defined differently for everyone as we all have varying degrees of pain that we consider ‘normal’ for us.